Big big changes. To find someone to switch with, or look into the poly lifestyle.

Well, me and my ex Daddy (also husband) crashed and burned about five months ago, and we both went our seperate ways as far as the dating went. Well, my life went to hell, and we began sorta talking again. Well, last night he threatened me with divorce papers for the last time, and 21st completely fuckin hateful with me. So, I’m moving on. No more looking back. I’m either gonna look for a male switch where I’m the dominant one 98% of the time, or I’m gonna start to look into polyamory. It’s something I’ve always wanted to try. Any of y’all in those two lifestyles?  Would love to hear the perks and downfalls of each from someone living those situations.